USING CAMP STAFF AS BABY-SITTERS
As
professionals in the camping industry, we would like to share some concerns
regarding using our staff as baby-sitters. While we fully understand the desire
of our parent population to use staff as baby-sitters, the practice can create
some real problems that parents may not have considered, and we would like to
share.
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Think about what happens when a teacher chooses to baby-sit for one family
yet refuses to baby-sit for another. How might that dynamic affect the
interpersonal relationships?
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Friendships between parents and staff can lead to inappropriate discussions
concerning other children and other staff members. Discussions and comments
about other children of Camp Doodles employees are not professional and
reflect poorly on everyone. Parent concerns, complaints or questions need
to be brought directly to the attention of the site administrators. These
are the correct people to address worries or problems. Privacy and
confidentiality need to be respected at all times.
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Parents should not put a staff members name down on Emergency Contact Lists
as people to contact. Imagine the level of discord if a staff member is
expected to leave camp to take just one child home.
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Parents should not ask
teachers to take care of children when they are away or out of town.
It places the staff member in an unfair position if they must choose between
their responsibility for a group of 8-15 children and the one child at
home. This is not fair to the other children and staff members who rely on
their attendance.
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Teachers are NOT to
drive children to or from camp
or on fields trips in their own car or in any other car, so please don’t
make that request.
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When a staff member baby-sits for one child or spends time with one child
out of the classroom, that child knows the teacher better than the other
children. This creates a feeling of “specialness” that often makes the
other children feel diminished.
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While staff members are at camp, there is a set level of supervision where
directors and other specially trained staff members are available to assist
or take control in difficult situations or in the event of an emergency.
Our staff members also have strict policies forbidding staff members from
being alone with campers, to eliminate any possible misunderstandings and
restrict inappropriate behavior, language, etc. A staff member at your
house does not have the same support structure readily available or the
supervision required by Camp Doodles.
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The Camp Doodles, Inc. administration feels it is inappropriate and asks
parents NOT to employ camp staff members for child-care. Despite
interviews, reference checks and any other methods used to check backgrounds
of our employees, statistics according
to the National Foundation to Prevent Child Sexual Abuse (NFPCSA) taken from
recent retrospective studies of adults suggest that one of three girls and
one of six boys will be subjected to some form of sexual abuse by age
eighteen. These studies further indicate that 46 percent of child molesters
are non-family members who are known to their victims.
We realize that the baby-sitting situation can be challenging at
times and appreciate your help in refraining from using our camp staff as
babysitters. If you choose to employ a current or former camp staff
members, we highly recommend you perform a background check of your own.